Joe Kelly

Often

Some-times

Hardly Ever

1

I can name her 3 best friends

1

2

3

2

I know my daughter’s goals

1

2

3

3

I comment on my wife/partner’s weight

3

2

1

4

I’m physically active with my daughter (shoot hoops, jog, bike, etc.)

1

2

3

5

I make dinner for my family

1

2

3

6

I talk to my daughter about managing money

1

2

3

7

I spend 1/2 hour, 1-on-1 with her, doing something we both enjoy

1

2

3

8

I talk to other fathers about raising kids

1

2

3

9

I talk to other fathers about raising daughters

1

2

3

10

I restrict her activities more than I do/would for a son

3

2

1

11

I talk to my daughter about advertising and marketing to kids

1

2

3

12

I tell my daughter what her strengths are

1

2

3

13

I comment on my daughter’s weight

3

2

1

14

I know what school project she’s working on

1

2

3

15

I protest negative media portrayals of girls

1

2

3

16

I view pornographic material

3

2

1

17

I participate in parenting organizations

1

2

3

18

I yell at my daughter’s mother

3

2

1

19

I suggest that my daughter go on a diet

3

2

1

20

I object when others suggest that she go on a diet

1

2

3

21

I converse with my daughter, and she does most of the talking

1

2

3

22

I know what my daughter is concerned about today

1

2

3

23

I know how many student government officers at her school are girls

1

2

3

24

I have read her school’s sexual harassment policy

1

2

3

25

I help boys learn to respect girls and vice versa

1

2

3

26

I tell my daughter stories about my own youth

1

2

3

27

I am honest with her

1

2

3

For dads who live away from their daughters

28

I initiate contact with her at least 5 times a week

1

2

3

29

I ask how she feels transferring to and from my home

1

2

3

30

I demonstrate respect for her mother and stepparent(s)

1

2

3

31

I fulfill my visitation and support commitments

1

2

3

For dads living with daughters--extra credit for live-away dads

32

I visit my daughter’s school during the school day

1

2

3

33

I volunteer to help with her extracurricular activities

1

2

3

34

I take my daughter to school

1

2

3

35

I volunteer at and/or for my daughter’s school

1

2

3

36

I take my daughter to work with me

1

2

3

Total Points